Work with me.
Child custody battles are exhausting and overwhelming in the best of circumstances, but when your ex-partner refuses to cooperate, files multiple frivolous motions against you, and institutes smear campaigns against your character, then chances are you are close to breaking point.
WHEREVER YOU ARE IN THE DIVORCE PROCESS,
I CAN HELP YOU
I am here to help YOU! If you don’t know who to turn to or what to do and are looking for your way out of the chaos and stress, then a divorce and child custody consultant is your answer. I am here to guide you, be your strategic thought partner, and emotional support person through the entire process and get you back on your feet to living your best life yet.
I am a CDC-certified divorce and child custody consultant, a mom of three, and a SurThriver. But most importantly, I am here for YOU. After my high-conflict child custody experience, I had a strong desire to educate and guide others through divorce and other similar circumstances so I started the SurThrive Tribe as a way to share my knowledge and strength with people just like you. I will help you get court-ready, deflect stress, build new parenting routines, and save you money on legal fees.
In summary, I am a fierce advocate, compassionate listener, and strategic planner. While I am not a therapist or an attorney (but I am an Associate Member of the American Bar Association for Family Law), I provide you with targeted support to get you in the right mindset and feeling excited about the future well beyond divorce. I have trained to provide you with a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment so that you can best meet the challenges of your divorce and child custody battle.
Plus, I get it and I get you!
Treating your attorney as a divorce consultant can cost you BIG. An attorney will not help you manage your narcissistic ex-partner’s combative attitude. They will not help you develop a strategic mindset to prepare you for battle. And they will not be there to emotionally support you. But you do need someone in your corner – someone to listen objectively, give unbiased perspectives, and provide professional communication and documentation strategies for your unique divorce and child custody battle.
Are you ready to heal?
When divorce happens, it can be emotionally traumatic, but divorcing a narcissist presents issues that most legal professionals have difficulty navigating. A narcissist’s weapon of choice is verbal abuse, lies, gaslighting, manipulation, and intentional infliction of emotional pain. It is a systematic dismantling of another person’s relationships, professional reputation, emotional and physical health, and very soul. in order to cope with this difficult mental and financial process, divorce counseling can help put you back in control and prevent the divorce process from stalling out. And that’s where I step in!
I specialize in contested divorces, child custody battles, and co-parenting with high-conflict personalities (HCPs), especially those that involve a narcissistic ex-partner. I bring a unique blend of expertise to my clients due to my analytical and organizational background as well as my personal experience so that you can have peace of mind, feel safe, and be empowered.
Your life is bigger than your failed marriage.
Set Up your Free Discovery Call
Browse my availability on Calendly and choose a day and time that best suits your schedule. We’ll chat through your current circumstances and discuss how consulting might help you reach your divorce and child custody goals.
Choose your Commitment
Now that you are excited about divorce consulting and how you can reclaim your power, we can begin the onboarding process and create a regular schedule for your sessions.
Show Up and Do the Work
Consulting is a commitment to a series of small changes that support a bigger goal. We’ll map our time together, establish those milestones, and create a unique pathway so that you can divorce better on your own terms.
“Alana helped me get organized and bring order where I did not see it. I was feeling very overwhelmed but now I feel a lot better about the quality of documentation I have and how important it is to stay on track and stay focused.”
- Veronica